The Dude And His Duds

April 13, 2010 - Tuesday 

The Dude And His Duds Current mood:  betrayed Category: MySpace The recent scandal involving a popular MySpace blogger and revelations about her past have left many people scratching their heads over the controversy. How can a loyal and devoted friend of her's, tip off her hated enemy, links to websites in which she is in positions which, in retrospect, is incredibly lacking in foresight. The links, in turn, posted on MySpace, for another blogger to post the links and open a MySpace wide scandal. Two people have been villianized and one particular drama blogger is relishing (1) a destruction of a friendship and (2) the turning on former friends over the controversy. It is no secret the conservatives on MySpace, with few exceptions, have been a loyal group of people who engaged in camaraderie which the liberals here were probably quite envious here. But a behind the scenes drama blogger wanted these friendships destroyed out of the coldness of her heart, and devised a plan which brilliantly succeeded beyond her wildest dreams. Sabrina Phillips has played this particular "damsel in distress" persona to the hilt, with her white knight, The Dude, defender of wimmens, by her side, deflecting the cruel and cold torments of wimmens hater The Rochester Guy! She even has dispatched the foremost drama blogger and despised woman on MySpace to do her bidding now that she is in cahoots with Nestafaru. In fact, The Dude had a two hour radio show on Blog Talk Radio (which he quickly deleted for libel reasons, as well as Sabrina's show) which was a "trial" where I was defendant, and all the trolls and "new friends" of Sabrina were in attendance. Mind you, these were people who days before, derided Sabrina as a plagiarizer, a bimbo, a fool, a bad blogger. Now they are on the cheering gallery pumping their fists and defending her vociferously, as they had a 180 degree change of heart overnight. Of course, opportunists Eurodanceaddict and !!Lika!!, the foremost fence-sitters until they sense where they can benefit the most, weighed in and !!Lika!! wanted me to issue a warrant against me, which I laughed about because the warrant was as imaginary as her organization she "runs." Now, in a trial, there is a defendant who is allowed equal opportunity to speak. But not in the Kangaroo Court of the Hillbilly ... who rarely ranked high in N&P. The Dude, for 3 1/2 hours (2 hours on his own show, which nobody listened to previously, until he decided to go drama) and then for Sabrina's "Freedom's Last Stand" (a show of which she said many times would be a totally anti drama show, but because she wanted to ride the bandwagon against me, excitedly agreed to extend this "trial." It was also a show which was panned by her new friends as "lame" and "boring" until they wanted to ride the drama bandwagon). I took the advice of several people to ignore the rantings of the show's host and the callers in, who previously called Sabrina horrible names but were now her biggest supporters. I did, but in the last 1/2 hour of Sabrina's show, I got an email from someone where a phony advocate was telling the host that she was going to file a report against me (this was previously done by Sabrina's new felon friend). I decided to listen in and saw the chat room and was immediately hit with "rapechester" and "rapist" by the trolls who took over the room. John Q Public aka Shane, called me those names, and I proceeded to go low as well, and now he was mad that I was "out of control" and "crazy" (because I gave back what he gave me, of course). In The Dude's blog, he lied about who started it and who called what a name: John Q. Public Shane NunYa   Naomi, I am sure you did not hear the worst of it either. Mike was threatening to have Sabrina's daughter taken away and he claimed i raped my Mother and Sons. He has sever mental issues to even think of that kind of stuff. If he had an issue on us calling him to the carpet for what he did, take it up with us, leave the children out of it. John Q. Public Shane NunYa   He started in on everyone and the gloves where off. He popped off about my mother first and i ate his lunch.   Posted by John Q. Public on Monday 12/04/2010 - 10:28 PM [Reply to this]  And on, by the way, Shane, you are a liar. You called me rapechester and this is what you get. Stop the low blows if you don't want it either. Too bad the Dude covers his tracks. Sabrina and Dennis, in the course of the show, attacked my taste for women and preferred clothing when Sabrina wanted me to vote in a lingerie contest which included a monetary prize. Her photo section has her in revealing outfits, which I always defended despite attacks from liberal bloggers. My desire for younger women was mocked, when Sabrina and Dennis married when she was already pregnant and both under the age of 21. Incredible. Then they attacked my Catholic faith because born agains think The Catholic Church is a cult. This coming from two people who agree women should obey their husbands and that they should be subservient to their male spouse. They bring up priest scandals when ignoring scandals involving fundy churches (hello, PTL and then Oral Roberts?). Oh, you are so tired of the drama, Sabrina Phillips. You are more entrenched in it than even now that you teamed up with the grande dame of MySpace shit stirring. Stop your pontificating on my life and where I went wrong, you self aggrandizing sawed off pissants. I never did cocaine and I never did porn, I never sold cocaine, I never met a significant other during a drug deal, and I never knocked someone up either and "had" to get married. You judge me, lady? Judge your own mistakes. Remember your blog about personal responsibilty? The Dude only wanted me to get on his show so I could "humble" myself and apologize to "all women" for my behavior. Now that is interesting. The biggest proponents of the scenario, Sabrina, is not known as one of the most civil blog commenters on MySpace. She is still at it, insulting, albeit in a more muted manner (out of an agreement with her new friend). Then there is The Dude, who did blogs which he claimed were "satirical comedy" but mocked several bloggers and insulted many people in the comments accompanying the blog. Now, Shane, who is the biggest waterboy for the team since Adam Sandler, parroted the demands when he has called bloggers horrible names as well. The Dude admitted after some repeated prodding, "yes I do fall below standards". Look at my blogs for the last few months. I treat liberals fairly, almost to the level of civility that Vic Damico treats them. Yes, I will treat some liberals harshly if they attack first, or insult a friend of mine. Sabrina HAD been under constant assault for her blogs from day one, and blogs are still being written about her...the latest from James. But for them to give me a standard of behavior without adjusting their own behavior, is not only disingenuous and hypocritical, but projects an unsound mind that lacks an ability to analyze critically. Of course, Dennis is now the biggest defender of women, after he made three blogs in a row where he attacked people's personal appearances and even suggested violence when he bragged about his knowledge of guns and ammunition. The trial of the Rochester Guy? A Kangaroo Court. I was not allowed to finish my statements. I was interrupted when they had 3 1/2 hours to state their "damning" evidence against me. I was muted by Sabrina and called names. Then I was cut off. John Q Public/Shane called me a rapist and rapechester and when I responded in kind, he cried foul. Sabrina, Dennis, The Dude, Shane, all piled on me and tried to make issue with my weight, hair, sex life, all mirroring the behavior of the exact trolls whom they condemned in the previous weeks. I did say stuff I regretted, but when anyone is put on the defensive and attacked when not given a fair shake, I will fight out of the corner and take everyone down with me. They said I was "guilty"...but I am in a way. But I plead not guilty to these charges: * I never told anyone about the links to the videos. I still maintain that. * I did not view any of her videos. * I did not spread the word about the videos. * I did not find her videos amusing and did not laugh about the videos when I admitted they existed. *I never sold my ex-friend out I am guilty of:      *Saying Sabrina was a nobody and a loser, doing nothing with her life and was a former druggie. I was wrong and h. I did that in the chat room of the Bad Lisa radio show. I listened to it without going into the chatroom. When I heard Dennis was on the phone to bash me, and when I heard the lie repeated that I told Paula about the videos, which she reported to Mantana, I was in the chatroom. Then I was taunted to call in by Dennis and his "new friend" who weeks before (Feb. 21, 2010) threatened to blog about his own daughter being raped (email). The same person who posted the emails about her past trials and tribulations, made only to humiliate and hurt her.     * I did not alert Sabrina about the knowledge of the videos. I panicked and did the wrong thing there, but honestly, what would YOU have done?    * I was making horrible comments to Sabrina when she was attacking me. I should have held back, but saying I roofied a drink and repeated the troll "story" of me and Misty set me off. Sabrina knows the story is false and just "hurting" me for effect was only going to cause a war of words.     *I did say I was going to report them to CPS for doing the show, which is an empty threat. I am sorry to claim that as I never followed through. I think despite my rift with Sabrina, I believe she and Dennis are good parents. Notice the wrath went to Bobby Ramone and not the actual poster of the information? Blame the one driving the getaway car and not the trigger puller? Amazing. That is the mentality of MySpace. They won't blame the big dog, just the whelps because no one here has the guts, the integrity, and the courage to just tell it like it really is. Now The Dude says Court is in session again. This self-proclaimed defender of de wimmenfolk wears his imaginary robes for a session in which he really is judge, jury and executioner. I would have wanted to call The Dude's first wife to the witness stand to examine his fitness to call himself the defender of de wimmenfolk, but he stammered and wanted to change the subject. Fine. I mean, Ralph Waldo Emerson wrote more than 100 years ago, "a foolish consistency is the hobgoblin of little minds," so Ralph, I guess all rules of fairness and equity are but a figment in the Court of King Wannabe Dude. The Dude, let's face it, is not by popularity parameters a well read blogger, and his recent popularity is based on his immersion into the world of drama blogging. His normal political blogs and radio show have tanked in N&P and BTR ratings. Usually about 3 people were in the chatroom at any one time for his radio show. Now that Sabrina has aligned herself with the drama bloggers and now has a "new" fan base of people who are just around to smell blood for the new victim, The Dude wants a piece of the action, and finally a taste of being a hero when he was an also-ran in the blogging world since he first entered text in a box. The jury spoke: I was guilty. I take cyber court now as seriously as I took Judge Mathis...a joke. Court was never in session; the jury is a bunch of trolls, and the issue of Sabrina and I should have been in the hands of only two people: she and I. But the scum of MySpace enjoy exploitation and take relish in two people previously good friends, now tearing each other into ribbons. It is a Roman Colosseum where she and I are killing each other like Ben-Hur and Massala for the savage amusement of the bloodthirsty audience in the chariot race in the movie Ben Hur. As a side-note, I watch with amusement as Euro again takes advantage of a situation not unlike the manner in which he exploited my Mathis appearance and Misty. He is always expected to be there whenever a new drama hits MySpace, to spew his two cents to his enraptured audience (okay, I exaggerated there). Eurodanceaddict and Lika have made blogging about other bloggers a sport since their other videos get even less views and responses than even The Dude's. These two "youth advocates" took pleasure in attacking both Sabrina and I on a constant basis, and magically, now they are her biggest defenders outside of the Dude. These two bloggers, who now defend the actions of Dennis that they previously condemned on DC's Christmas blog, are in sore need of being on a side. A winning side. They claim not to be opportunists, but most of MySpace knows them to ride whatever trend and controversy and milk it so they will get readers (I guess Euro has not done a music blog in ages, he is so entrenched in drama). The demands from The Dude and Sabrina are to be more civil to other bloggers who disagree with their positions, but as it really stands, these demands are empty in the light of their repeated, and consistent, uncivil behavior on blogs which they wrote and on other blogger's comments. Look in the mirror, please, and since you are so biblical, Sabby, what about the log in your eye? So The Dude, the MySpace version of Jon Gosselin, milk your pathetic and shameless 15 minutes of MySpace fame for what it is worth. You will be as forgotten and discarded by readers as the Imperatrix of Shanapolis after your little game is over and the dust clears. It seems that politics is secondary to drama blogging for Sabrina and The Dude. Maybe they need some humbling. I won't do it. They are blips on most of America's radar. I will let them hang themselves with their own rope. They already are destroying themselves and others when the person they wanted to destroy is not participating. WOOSH! LET IT GO. MOVE ON. LET'S GET BACK TO BLOGGING ABOUT THINGS THAT ACTUALLY MATTER? SHOW OF HANDS? Now, back to our normal programming. 9:17 PM 30 Comments 5 Kudos (Give Kudos)  Translate Powered by English Albanian Arabic Bulgarian Catalan Chinese Croatian Czech Danish Dutch Estonian Filipino Finnish French Galician German Greek Hebrew Hindi Hungarian Indonesian Italian Japanese Korean Latvian Lithuanian Maltese Norwegian Polish Portuguese Romanian Russian Serbian Slovak Slovenian Spanish Swedish Thai Turkish Ukrainian Vietnamese Print

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	Bullet Tooth	Wow.  I'm actually pretty glad I don't blog nearly as much as I used to.  Geez.   Posted by Bullet Tooth on April 12, 2010 - Monday - 10:51 PM [Reply to this]

	Michael The Anti-Drama Guy! Michael Rochester Guy	Yes, remember how civil Dennis was to you in the Christmas blog? This is bullshit stuff. I am staying away more after this.   Posted by Michael The Anti-Drama Guy! on April 12, 2010 - Monday - 10:59 PM [Reply to this]

	Bullet Tooth	Naturally, I do.  I wasn't all that surprised after I made a counter-blog and he stayed quiet.  I eventually just quit blogging as I have been rather busy the last few months etc.  I've made a couple blogs in the last couple of weeks though....   Posted by Bullet Tooth on April 12, 2010 - Monday - 11:06 PM [Reply to this]

	Michael The Anti-Drama Guy! Michael Rochester Guy	I may look at them. Thanks.   Posted by Michael The Anti-Drama Guy! on April 12, 2010 - Monday - 11:07 PM [Reply to this]

	Michael The Anti-Drama Guy! Michael Rochester Guy	Folks, the dude is blocking me from commenting on his blog, so I am blocking him from commenting on MY blog.   Posted by Michael The Anti-Drama Guy! on April 12, 2010 - Monday - 11:00 PM [Reply to this]

	Miss Wyoming Madison Homewood	Sounds like a lot of  bull shit around this story. This girl makes a ADULT XXX  PORN SMUT FILM and now she is the victim. And her husband holds a press conference to promote the video. Rapechester ...??? How do you rape the willing? You cannot rape a girl that got naked and had sex on video. Now if someone drugged her and gave her a Roffy that would be an entirely different story.   Posted by Miss Wyoming on April 12, 2010 - Monday - 11:09 PM [Reply to this]

	Josh	Smart girl, raised the right way.   Posted by Josh on April 12, 2010 - Monday - 11:57 PM [Reply to this]

	Michael The Anti-Drama Guy! Michael Rochester Guy	Good points there. But I never told a soul about the videos and their locations on the internet, which is the proposed scenario among the trolls, but this was known as early as October 2009. I am pissed that some of her defenders are drama scum just jumping on a bandwagon.   Posted by Michael The Anti-Drama Guy! on April 12, 2010 - Monday - 11:12 PM [Reply to this]

	Pip	Nice job Mike... I'm blown away at how this has gotten.    Posted by Pip on April 12, 2010 - Monday - 11:13 PM [Reply to this]

	Michael The Anti-Drama Guy! Michael Rochester Guy	It is getting too big. It is more tragic than anything. To see friends ripped apart over bullshit is startling. It is something obviously planned and executed by scum here.   Posted by Michael The Anti-Drama Guy! on April 12, 2010 - Monday - 11:14 PM [Reply to this]

	Miss Wyoming Madison Homewood	Yes I listen to BTR and I check my links on Myspace it has been the drama for the last week here. Sucks to be the scapegoat for someone poor choices in life when they were younger. We have all done thing we regret when we were younger. Live and learn and do not repeat the past. I think it is ridiculous they are trying to put the blame on you. Own up to your past and be done with it. BUT NO THESE PEOPLE ARE DRAMA BLOGGERS.   Posted by Miss Wyoming on April 12, 2010 - Monday - 11:21 PM [Reply to this]

	Josh	1.95 a minute to look at Sabrina's vids.  She's been raking cash off fubar.com for three years.  Praise Jeebus! and pass the porn cash!   Posted by Josh on April 12, 2010 - Monday - 11:55 PM [Reply to this]

	Michael The Anti-Drama Guy! Michael Rochester Guy	Thank YOU, Madison, for the words of encouragement. And yes, I owned up to my part. I am deeply sorry for the horrible things I said to Sabrina in chat room. But she is running to a drama blogging queen and in effect, cheapening her own position on MySpace because she wants to promote her new website.   Posted by Michael The Anti-Drama Guy! on April 12, 2010 - Monday - 11:24 PM [Reply to this]

	♥ Naomi™♥	I didn't agree with you doing this blog! I don't understand On one hand you will say nice things about Sabrina and the Dude then you turn the next second on them! Remember what I said THEY are not the enemy's yet you are treating them like they are   Posted by ♥ Naomi™♥ on April 12, 2010 - Monday - 11:26 PM [Reply to this]

	Josh	Naomi, I told you not to listen to Mike.  Vegas?   Posted by Josh on April 12, 2010 - Monday - 11:54 PM [Reply to this]

	Michael The Anti-Drama Guy! Michael Rochester Guy	The Dude lowers his blog, I will lower this one. He had his chance to character assassinate me, now it is his turn to feel the heat.   Posted by Michael The Anti-Drama Guy! on April 12, 2010 - Monday - 11:27 PM [Reply to this]

	♥ Naomi™♥	THEY are not the enemy's   Posted by ♥ Naomi™♥ on April 12, 2010 - Monday - 11:29 PM [Reply to this]

	Michael The Anti-Drama Guy! Michael Rochester Guy	The want me to apologize, but they chose a public venue when email would have done. They want humility from me? They also have to admit they messed up as well with their blogging and commenting choices.   Posted by Michael The Anti-Drama Guy! on April 12, 2010 - Monday - 11:33 PM [Reply to this]

	♥ Naomi™♥	Are Sabrina, Dude and John blocked and or are you removing comments from them??   Posted by ♥ Naomi™♥ on April 12, 2010 - Monday - 11:39 PM [Reply to this]

	Michael The Anti-Drama Guy! Michael Rochester Guy	The Dude blocked me from his blog (thus his hillbilly ass is thrown out of the tavern), but Dennis and Sabrina are welcome to comment here.   Posted by Michael The Anti-Drama Guy! on April 12, 2010 - Monday - 11:50 PM [Reply to this]

	Sybil Sybil II	*I did say I was going to report them to CPS for doing the show, which is an empty threat well I'm confused. Naomi put of a chat with you where you said you DID make a report.   Posted by Sybil on April 12, 2010 - Monday - 11:36 PM [Reply to this]

	♥ Naomi™♥	I don't think he actually meant it but we shall await his answer!!   Posted by ♥ Naomi™♥ on April 12, 2010 - Monday - 11:42 PM [Reply to this]

	Michael The Anti-Drama Guy! Michael Rochester Guy	I never made a report. I did that a response to Lika making a threat to report me to the feds for kiddie porn, which was a lie...something that Sabrina and Dennis wholeheartedly concurred.   Posted by Michael The Anti-Drama Guy! on April 12, 2010 - Monday - 11:47 PM [Reply to this]

	Sawdust Trail Billy Sunday	I heard a couple minutes of it, but I stopped, cause I don't care to hear bashing of people who are on the same side.  What the heck is going on out there?   Posted by Sawdust Trail on April 12, 2010 - Monday - 11:48 PM [Reply to this]

	Michael The Anti-Drama Guy! Michael Rochester Guy	Ask them my friend...it is part hypocrisy, part them aligning with drama bloggers, part misunderstanding, part ego trip, and part desire to be popular on MySpace.   Posted by Michael The Anti-Drama Guy! on April 12, 2010 - Monday - 11:49 PM [Reply to this]

	Josh	TLDR.   I am Captain Kangaroo.  Guity!!  And I'm crazy about that Sabrina young stuff!!   Posted by Josh on April 12, 2010 - Monday - 11:52 PM [Reply to this]

	Michael The Anti-Drama Guy! Michael Rochester Guy	I knew you would weigh in.   Posted by Michael The Anti-Drama Guy! on April 12, 2010 - Monday - 11:56 PM [Reply to this]

	The Kosovo Girl-Never Give Up, Never Surrender!	Shame shame! I've never held drama blogs or the people who write/participate in them in high regard. My philosophy is simple: if you don't like what someone wrote, grow a set and move on. Also, not visiting their blogs would help alot too.   Posted by The Kosovo Girl-Never Give Up, Never Surrender! on April 13, 2010 - Tuesday - 12:43 AM [Reply to this]

	Michael The Anti-Drama Guy! Michael Rochester Guy	I agree with you. Broken friendships are awful...imagine a divorce of friends. This is a divorce. Real life pain is not drama...it is real life.   Posted by Michael The Anti-Drama Guy! on April 13, 2010 - Tuesday - 12:47 AM [Reply to this]

EurodanceAddict

are you seriously wanting to burn EVERY bridge you have Michael? All of that email exchange we had last night to answer your questions didn't enlighten ANYTHING about Likas and my position? You know damn well that its nothing to do with the Sabrina incident that has me and Lika scratching our heads about you. Think about Miley Cyrus for a minute...why do I have to repeat it to you a million times? You are out of control, Michael, especially when you make this blog AFTER I told you we were not going to call in on you and yet you LIE that we still had the intention. Then you had Lika deleted? That's bad diplomacy Michael. I have ALL of the BTR shows including Dudes including the text chat from Dennis's BTR show as well. It makes you look CRAZZZZZY, Michael. I have written 2 music blogs in the last month and a half. Do you WANT ME to unleash on you again? Also its too late to call YVI a fraud after Reaper already admitted it isn't on Ripoffreport.com You need some help Michael. Posted by EurodanceAddict on April 13, 2010 - Tuesday - 1:38 AM [Reply to this]