This is what happens when you stick your nose where you don't belong then deny it.

From: ♠Bobby Ramone♠
To: Sabrina Phillips

What exactly is your issue with Me,young lady? I came into your blog. I was very respectful,and civil. All I was doing was presenting the other side of an issue,nothing more. The side of the issue of those of us who do not believe that life begins at the moment of conception, and does not share your particular reigious beliefs. Yet,you chose to make snide remarks, continually trying to bait Me into a childish argument like the ones you like to have with Bad Lisa, completely disrespecting Me and also encouraging hate speech TOWARDS Me,as well as anyone who doesn't share your opinions and beliefs. You attacked My morality,My ethics, My intelligence-and for what reason? I've done nothing to you. You treated Me with nothing but conempt,and there was simply no reason.
I'd LIKE to think that despite your age and lack of life expeience that you are able to have civilized conversations. This sort of thing makes you just as bad as those you claim to despise for their online behaviors. Funny-every now and then, I comment in MTRG's blogs (when they aren't drama)...yet despite what so many of his 'haters' say,even HE knows how to have a civilized debate about an issue. Feel free to have your 'online war' with Bad Lisa-but when someone approaches you with respect and civility,you might wish to try returning the same courtesy. You'll do alot better in life if you practice that old saying 'Do unto others as you would have them do unto you'. From: Sabrina Phillips
To: ♠Bobby Ramone♠

I didn't "attack" you, I countered you with my own opinions and that's where you seem to take issue in the first place. In all honesty, I'm not the total asshole that people make me out to be. I give my opinion on issues and I respond to comments with how I feel...people seem to get all mad when I give them a response, like I should just shut up and listen. You can have your beliefs, that's fine..but when you get all self-righteous on me holding age and what not over my head I am going to say something about it.
From: ♠Bobby Ramone♠
To: Sabrina Phillips

Simply don't speak down to Me as if I'm some uneducated moron, or one of the haters that go after you so often. Don't let your disgust towards Bad Lisa spill over on to Me simply because I choose to be her friend. Abortion is NEVER something that should be taken lightly, or used repeatedly due to a lack of responsibility-but it IS something that is necessary to have as an AVAILABLE option. I have had the misfortune of knowing people who have had children who were the products of abuse, unreported rape and molestations-and those poor kid's lives were HELL. Their parents treat them as constant reminders of the unspeakable evils done to them. My second actual 'girlfriend' when I was just 17 was a 'rape baby'. Her mother both hated an resented her,and treated her as such-not even willing to press charges when her boyfriend decided to go in and brutally sodomize her from the age of thirteen until she was sixteen. And SHE was a "born again god fearing christian". She ended up finally committing suicide when she was just 19, because she simply could not take living with that stigma on her anymore. These children are not given the same things in life that each child deserves-the unconditional love, nurturing, and caring support of their mothers and/or fathes. To Me,having seen this sort of thing first hand, it would be far kinder to abort them before the first 8 weeks of gestation is complete and spare them a life of hell. Abortion NEEDS to remain both legal and have funds to support it for those who cannot afford it-othewise, we will go right back to the days of illegal,non-sterile, non-certified abortionists who went about their merry way, leaving scores of women permanently scarred,damged to the point of infertility,or dead-and all because they did not want or COULD not afford to have a child. No person or group has the right to decide that a woman MUST carry an unwanted child. In the cases of those who willingly abuse abortion services as a simpel form of birth control because they are too lzy to take any preventative measures,, they should be made to get a tubiligation until they can be a responsible person From: Sabrina Phillips
To: ♠Bobby Ramone♠

Why you choose to be friends with someone like that is beyond me but that's not for me to judge. I'm friends with Michael on here and I know a lot of people hate me just for that reason, whatever. Anyway, my mother had 2 abortions before having me so trust me, I know how difficult a decision it must be for women to make. She shared her experiences with me when I was 15 and making stupid choices. I have never had an abortion, or gotten pregnant before my daughter, but I heard about the heartbreak that happened to someone who did get them. My mom has a lot of emotional and mental issues as well as a lot of resentment with men because of what she went through. I do not condone abortion because, to me, it is murder. How come you are so hostile towards Christianity? Do you know, as I just revealed to you, I wasn't always a Christian and even then I STILL thought of abortion as murder...just based around science. Christianity isn't the cause of everything evil like you would think it is...God saved my life. Everyone going around calling me some "hypocrite" or "little Christian girl" doesn't know what the hell i've been through and I wouldn't expect them to because I don't openly share my testimony. Being a Christian does NOT make me perfect, it just makes me perfectly forgiven. Anyways, going back to the issue of abortion, I don't believe I should have to pay for someone else's decision like that.
From: ♠Bobby Ramone♠
To: Sabrina Phillips

My problem with christianity, and the church in general is all of the lies and falsehoods that are perpetuated "in god's name", and almost always at a hefty profit. Too many 'christians' use that exact same statement-"I'm not perfect, just perfectly forgiven" as a sheild to hide behind when held accountable for their misdeeds. And being raised catholic, I know that they are the worst of the lot-after all, there IS a Vatican Visa card-but christians really bother Me as well. Missy's (My ex GF) mom was a devout born again christian. You know what she said when her daughter told her about the sexual abuse she was suffering? That it was "god's will that she suffer for being brought into the world in such an unholy way". NO 'god' that is good and just and loving would allow someone living a lifetime defiling all that is beautiful and innocent on this earth into an eternal paradise simply because 'they were forgiven'. When I was 6 years old, I had a woman thrust My face between her legs while she was "babysitting" My brother and I. She was doped out of her mind,and looking to get off,and I was easy pickings. I saw this creature again when I was 13,as she was My father's cousin,and I confronted her about what she had done. Her response? "Jesus has forgiven my sins-it doesn't matter if you do or not. You will be burning in hell for being a sinner,not me". I'm sure there IS a creator,a supreme being-but no WAY will I believe that such a "god" exists that would reward a lifetime of evil by focusing on some death bed last minute conversion to "believer". I've read the old and new testament from front to back...you know the ONLY real message I got from it? That to follow the TRUE teachings of Christ,whether he was the son of god, or just a decent human being,then all you really have to do is to be a fair and just person, accept people as they are, and to try to do some good for the world. You shouldn't have to sit in a church every sunday, mourning the fact that you're there, tithing to keep the church in business. Its all a bullshit scam. The "word of god" has been so grossly peverted by mankind,who seem to reinterpret it as it fits their own needs, that a church simply can't be trusted. When I was in troube with My life, I did not turn to god,or jesus. I turned to MYSELF and said "you're better than this-DO better than this". You certainly can't believe in any kind of higher power if you don't believe in yourself. When god sticks his head down from the heavens and physically tells Me that christianity is the only way, instead of only being as valid as Norse,Greek, or ANY 'paga' mythology, then I will assuredly change My beliefs. In the meantime, I will focus on trying to be and stay a solid examle for My two sons WITHOUT the assistace of christianity. Enjoy your weekend.
From: Sabrina Phillips
To: ♠Bobby Ramone♠

Wow, I'm sorry you had to go through such horrible crap. I know what you mean, I had a stepfather who molested me when I was 11 years old...only happened twice but it was enough to get to me. There are a lot of people who go around perverting God's word, I agree with you there and I have been to some of the churches that only exist for profit, they make me sick. The people who kill in the name of "God" are also, in my opinion, perverting the Word. Yes, doing good things is a great aspiration and I try to do good things in my everyday life but I also believe that Jesus was who He said He was. I like the way C.S. Lewis put it...either Christ was who He said He was or He was the worst person to have ever walked the earth but I have nothing to lose by believing in Him. I was a staunch atheist when I was younger and I vehemently did not believe in God. I challenged ANYONE on their belief in God. I was also a huge drug addict...smart in school but not smart when it came to personal choices. My mom didn't care as long as I kept making good grades. Eventually I put myself in a drug induced coma, almost died and STILL didn't learn after that. I was doing cocaine left and right going through eight balls every other night ...my life was in shambles. I decided not to go to college and just "party" instead. My husband and I met on a drug deal when I was 15. He was selling me cocaine...he always had a crush on me but I never had much of an interest in him so nothing ever happened. I moved out of town after my mom had gotten a divorce and came back a few years later and ran into Dennis, my husband, again. I asked him to hook me up with a deal and he told me that he no longer did any drugs and how God had saved him. We turned the whole conversation into a heated argument and he told me to read the Bible before we continued with it any further so that I could know what I was arguing over. I started reading it and, I don't know...there was just something to it. I can't really explain it. I started crying and I ended up handing my life over to God about halfway through the Old Testament. I haven't touched drugs since. I don't use God as my crutch but as my Protector and my Savior...I didn't deserve to be here. What your babysitter did to you was wrong, what my stepfather did to me was wrong and yes, God works in ways that I sometimes just can't wrap my head around but I do believe that, when the time comes, His judgment will be just. If I'm wrong, and we just die, then I will die a happy woman knowing that I tried to give my daughter the best life possible. I don't hate you Bobby...there's no reason to. I don't "hate by association." I just shared with you more than I shared with anyone on this website. My husband is the only other person who knows about my step father. Enjoy your weekend as well.
From: ♠Bobby Ramone♠
To: Sabrina Phillips

Wow.That is alot to go through. MY own past is pretty well known among My friends, but I had no idea you had been through that much. I guess I was really lucky,because I've never touched cocaine in any way-I've always been too scared of it. My problem was with prescriptionpain killers, which led to barbituates. What set Me straight was that I decided to raise My gf's kid as My own. After 4 solid years of daily abuse, I went completely cold turkey, and never looked back. When I went into My septic coma in 2005, I refused pain medicaton after I woke up. I didn't take ANY pain meds again until I fell from the 4th floor of a building in 2007,and havent taken any since. If I may ask, was it finding god that stopped you husband from selling ? In My personal experience, it was usually getting caught that stopped anyone from selling anymore. Does he counsel former users/sellers? My bro Dave Boyle (from the MC I used to ride in) counsels former users down in south florida. It used to be part of his probation, then it was just somthing fulfilling for him. Of course he was caught with 3 kilos on his harley,so he had to do some serious time. Look-I won't knock you for your beliefs, they have obviousy done alot for you-just please don't knock Me for Mine. I welcome the chance to openly debate you in future blogs-just ask the 'hounds' to please try to keep it respectful, as I have. Andy was a GREAT example-but 'hardcase' has a SERIOUS attitude problem,and so did timothy. I'm not any happier about the lousy job Obama is doing-so there is really no reason to attack Me like he did as "just another liberal prick". I AM a liberal-but I'm ALSO a realist, and Obama is not smart enough to clean up the mess that Dubya left, end of story. Have a good rest of your weekend, and I will see you in the blogs.
From: Sabrina Phillips
To: ♠Bobby Ramone♠

That's really cool of you...I know a lot of guys who wouldn't be man enough to step up the plate like that for children. I admire your drive. Thank you for being kind with me, I promise not to knock you for your beliefs on my blog and I will tell everyone to mellow out...I think people are more pissed off and on edge than ever before :/ The last few years have really been awful and trust me, I'm not in love with Bush either. In regards to your question about my husband...no, he never got caught dealing *fortunately* He doesn't have a criminal record whatsoever. He just stopped dealing it one day when he realized how miserable he was. He had run away from his home and gotten involved with a complete bitch for 2 years. He started dabbling into drugs and eventually started selling them. He broke up with the bitch and sold for a bit after that but then stopped. He kept a prayer diary ever since he decided to stop selling. He prayed for a wife in it four days before we had our first date. I think that's kind of neat :) I can look back and see what he went through.
From: ♠Bobby Ramone♠
To: Sabrina Phillips

Honestly? I think if you blogged something like this, ALOT of the 'haters' would leave you alone. A big part of the reason they give you so much grief is that you're very young, and (no offense intended) to look at you, it looks like you've never really gone through any real hardships. Your husband was VERY lucky,in all honesty. I've known people whose entire lives were destroyed just on the ASSUMPTION that they were dealing-and not even cocaine, just pot! My eldest brother, even though he and I dont speak, had his entire life ruined because his girlfiend back in 1997 sent him out to buy her one lousy joint. The BSO caught him with just a half ounce, but that was enough to get "intent to distribute" and wreck his entire life. Now, I personally don't smoke it-but I really don't see any reason that it should be treated any differently than alcohol. If it was legalized, taxed, and sold safely as alcohol? I think the deficit would disappear! For the record, I would never make fun of you being a stay at home mother. My hex wife stayed at home until My youngest was 5 and in kindergarten. I just took extra work until all 3 of the kids were in school, and then finally asked her to go to work. Maybe if she were a bit more moral of a person, she wouldn't have resented that so much and decided to take off with her eldest kid and ignore the existence of the other two. Do you have any plans to go to work after your daughter goes to school? Does your husband work now? In all honesty, it is kind of hard to juggle working and being a responsible parent- but it can be done. After I moved to Michigan, I got a job working as a process server, and its REALLY great. I make My own hours, it pays REALLY well, $50 per paper (even though I have to go into some really nasty neighborhoods at times) and I still have the time to go to parent/teacher conferences, volunteer at Steven's (My youngest son) school 1-2 days a week, chaperone feild trips, and I can still make between $150 and $400 for a total of 3-4 hours work-and most of that is driving time! Ok, I'm off of here for the afternoon-both of My boys want to try out for baseball next month, so we're going to go to the batting cages for awhile,then maybe hit a diamond on the way back home to see how well they can feild. Enjoy the rest of your sunday!