Lets check Google for that:
Cougar—a woman, 35
[4] years of age or older, who pursues younger men,
typically more than eight years her junior.
[5] The origin of the word is debated; however, it is thought to have
first appeared in print on the Canadian dating website Cougardate.com[6] and has been used in TV series, advertising and film. The 2007 film
Cougar Club was dedicated to the subject and in Spring 2009
TV Land aired a reality show called
The Cougar. The sitcom
Cougar Town explores the difficulty and stigma of many so-called "Cougars".
source:
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Age_disparity_in_sexual_relationships
In the following article, I highlighted and underlined all of the parts that really caught my eye and I totally agree with.
What is a Cougar Anyway?
More and more women are embracing the cougar within, finding in the label both the humor and a
sense of empowerment. Just as many others find the term demeaning and reject it as sexist or, at best, another unfortunate example of society's sexual double standard.
The question is, however, what exactly are these women embracing or rejecting?
What exactly does it mean to be a cougar woman?
For the past five years, we here at
urbancougar.com have made a life out of trying to understand the nature of what it means to be a cougar. We've learned that it's far too convenient to make generalizations. That a cougar must be over a certain age. That she only dates younger men. That she observes the
Half-Your-Age-Plus-Seven Rule. While each of these "rules" has its place in helping define what a cougar is, each of them is either too broad or too narrow. And that's because being a cougar is ultimately about attitude.
It's about the way she carries herself and owns her sexuality.
While each cougar is unique (that's what makes them great!), in our experience, there are a few common characteristics that help us understand the cougar woman.
She's in ControlFirst and foremost,
the cougar woman is in total control - of her life, her sexuality and her identity. She's her own woman, independent, strong and sexy, confident in her self and unconcerned by what is expected of her by society. It's that fearless attitude that makes a cougar.
As Ilana Eberson, CEO of
Real Live People Party, remarks in the video from
SheZoom.com (below), "Everyone wants to equate the predatory nature of the cougar animal with the cougar woman, and she doesn't have to be predatory. She can be nice. She can be, you know, a vixen. She can be sassy. She can be, you know, virginal. She can be whatever she wants to be."
That gets to the heart of what it means to be a cougar woman. She's found her path and proudly (and unapologetically) follows it. Because it often takes time for women (and men, also) to "discover" themselves, cougars are typically more mature women in their latter thirties and beyond.
She's IndependentA cougar is not just independent-minded, she's personally independent as well. She is likely a career women who has reached a comfortable level of financial freedom. She's worked hard and fought for her success. She's found that while men her age and older are often intimidated by her ambition and success,
young men are drawn to it and hopeful to learn from it.
Her independence extends to relationships where
she has no time for petty drama. She's comfortable letting a relationship develop naturally rather than trying to force it. She knows a relationship takes work but also understands that one can't be made into something it isn't.
She's ExperiencedLet's face it: the cougar is experienced. She's more sophisticated and worldly than her younger counterparts. She's worked hard, played hard and really lived. Her experience has resulted in one simple truth: she knows what she wants.
Her experience is particularly profound in the bedroom.
To a young man she’s a living, breathing Kama Sutra, versed in the ways of pleasure. To be with her is an orientation into an unexplored world of contortionist positions, hidden erogenous zones, and foreign animal noises. She knows what she likes, how she likes it done and where, and instructs her cub on how best to give it. A night with her and he will uncover the secrets of making a woman beg for more. All men want those secrets and they know no amount of fumbling about with inexperienced girls will ever provide them.
She's Undeniably SexyThere's just something about a cougar. Whether she's the type that rocks a business suit or tight top and jeans,
she just exudes sexual power. It's not something you can quantify or categorize. You can only feel it.
A cougar knows that age is increasingly irrelevant. 40 is the new 30. 50, the new 40. Healthier lifestyles, a greater commitment to fitness and an emphasis on style, have all contributed to something young men have picked up on. Older women are smokin’. The popularity of
yoga, pilates, unique diets and other health and fitness fads have cougars looking hotter and more attractive longer. In fact,
the older she gets, the more delicious she becomes. Her toned body and and smooth skin coalesce with an earned stately grace to create a sort of sexual super woman.
She Likes the AttentionA cougar is quick to admit that
when a young man expresses interest in her it makes her feel great, whether she's into the guy or not. And why not? It validates all of the hard work she's put in to looking hot and staying young. It proves that she's still got it.
She also revels in the fact that other women are often jealous of her, particularly younger women. The cattiness of the young woman is just further validation that she, the cougar, is what men want. They want a piece of her sass, her experience
She's Down with the Program
Lastly, and perhaps most importantly,
a cougar is proud to be a cougar. She wears the label as a badge of honor. She recognizes that it is tongue-in-cheek, but also finds it empowering. It's both fun and sexy. And maybe she even likes the feistyness it suggests.
To her, "cougar" says, "I'm hot and I'm tired of men having all the fun." She realizes that few people have been more neglected by society than the mature, sophisticated woman. Society expects her to dress conservatively, drive a station wagon and cart her kids to soccer practice. She's watched Hollywood basically cast women like her aside, giving them nothing to play but ignored housewives, teachers with about as much to say as Charlie Brown’s, and useless mothers to obnoxious, ridiculously erudite kids. It’s bullshit and she knows it. It’s also bullshit that her male peers continue to be perceived as more respectable, more refined and more attractive the older they get, even when they’ve got some blonde bimbo with big fake tits on their arms.These women are taking back their sexuality. And they’re doing it under the moniker of cougar. God bless them.
Source:
http://www.urbancougar.com/p-404-what-is-a-cougar-anyway.aspx
What a GREAT article that contrasts what "PIGGY/Perv" males who want to date women 15 to 20 years their junior say about Cougars.
Women deserve to have that fun JUST AS MUCH AS MEN DO!!!
The following is what MOST (almost ALL) older men are when they date women that much younger than themselves:
Sugar daddy/mama/mommy—
a rich, usually older person who offers money or gifts to a less rich, usually younger person in return for companionship or sexual favors. This differs from prostitution in that the older person is usually the sole financial provider to the younger person. In Japan, there is a loosely similar practice known as
enjo kōsai.
The Pervert or the Pedophile Myth: This is almost completely untrue as well. While, yes there are some men who are genuine bad people and are fantasizing about wanting to be on the wrong side of the law, for the most part older men are not after little girls.
Here is what they are after… The older man will go through a mid-life crisis at some point in their life and want to live out their dream of staying forever young. Sometimes it is exasperated by their age and possibly their energy levels dropping off. This hits them where it hurts the most-Their ego.
The later the crisis happens, the more pronounced it is. And when it happens, they think dating a younger woman will solve their problems of staying young.
They think they can recapture their youth just by being around an energetic, fun-loving, out-all-night woman. While the younger women set
DO have a tendency to party all the time, this is not what runs their lives, so you older men need to remember that!
Generally, older men look like "social miscreants" when they are out in the club trying to pick up women that look like their daughters and even MORE pathetic when they pretend to LIKE the younger women's music and then try dancing like a fool.
Ok, now to Schooling:
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If Computers completely take over our schooling, we WILL have a problem.
Do what you can to prevent this from happening.
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